December 19, 2009
It's up to you to decide who is worth a second thought. If someone commits an act that is offensive to you, the choice is up to you whether to let it affect you or just take it in stride and let it remain a mere nothing to you. How much power will you let that person have over you is measured by the force of your own retaliation.
December 7, 2009
The strange thing is that even when you say you move on and when you find love again, it does not mean that new love ever deletes the loves of your past, in fact it just doesn't work that way. Yes, you've moved on but that person you once thought you loved, you still love, because that person isn't in them, that person was in you, a part of you, and for that very reason that person who they once were still lives on inside of you as any part of your past stays with you, and because you felt something, those feelings somewhere deep within you, buried or not, benign or not, distant or denied, it's still within you. You just have to be strong enough to recognize that and accept it, and continue to move forward. Only the weak start retracing their steps in order to go backwards, to what cannot be.